Good Questions to ask your Boyfriend
Having a boyfriend is one of the greatest things in the world. Breaking up? Not so much…. That’s why it is super important to get to know your boyfriend, not only to get a closer connection, but also to make sure you are right for each other and prevent future heartache.
After reading this article, you will be a relationship superstar, knowing exactly what questions to ask your boyfriend and get to know him better.
Basics In Talking With a Guy
Firstly we want to establish how to have a conversation with a guy. Will it be through text messaging, in person, over skype or whatever.
There is no right or wrong answer, and no one way is better than the others, although we recommend getting to know your boyfriend in person as you will build a much better connection.
Talking with guys is a lot different than talking with your girlfriends. Not only don’t they like talking about make-up and the latest fashion trends, but they don’t talk as much and prefer quality over quantity. (Don’t worry, quality talk is perfect for making deep connections)
So after you decided if you are going to get to know your boyfriend over text or in person, let’s move on to the next part.
The Importance of Getting to Know a Guy
Imagine this situation. You and your boyfriend wants to go on a date. He is more Introverted and thinks a day in the park with a book is the perfect date, while you want to go out dancing.
You go to the movies, you want to see the latest blockbuster, while your boyfriend wants to see the groundbreaking documentary about global warming.
When you want to go to a restaurant for a nice meal together, he wants a nice big burger, while you’re more into sushi.
Of course couples can make this work by compromising, but wouldn’t it be nice if you and your boyfriend have the same interests and neither one of you has to compromise?
That’s the great thing about getting to know your boyfriend. You can make sure that you are compatible and prevent future arguments.
Another great thing about getting to know your boyfriend is that you will form a deeper connection and know more about each other. This helps you better understand him and allows both of you to fulfill each other’s needs.
But what questions to ask your boyfriend to get to know him better and form this deeper bond? Keep on reading and find out.
Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend To Get To Know Him
We can just give you a list of questions to ask your boyfriend to get to know him, but learning to form these questions on your own will allow you to ask more accurate questions and will sound more authentic. Don’t worry, we will still include a few examples.
There are three main categories you must keep in mind when getting to know your boyfriend. Interests, Values and Family. You can definitely ask questions not falling in these categories if it’s important for you to know, but these three will cover most.
Interests is pretty much self explanatory. This is questions like “what’s your favorite movie” and “what do you like to do in your free time”. This will allow you to see which type of movies he likes, and whether he likes video games, being outdoors like hiking or lounging around in the mall.
There are a billion questions to asks about interests, just keep your mind and eyes open.
Values include stuff like “Would you sleep with a girl before marriage” and “Would you ever consider abortion and what’s your stand on it” or even “What political party do you support”.
By knowing this you can determine a lot of a guy’s character, and whether you are right for each other. If he doesn’t want to wait till marriage, and you do, chances are he will regularly pressure you to compromise on your values.
Asking about family can give you great insight about what kind of guy he is. Look at how he treats his mother and you’ll know how he will treat you. Also this gives you the opportunity to see if you have future together. If he is family orientated and wants kids someday, and you don’t, you’re in for a bad time.
Keeping these three categories in mind and forming questions based on them will ensure you will get to know your boyfriend in the shortest amount of time possible.
If you want to know what to say to a guy to turn him on, well that’s easy. Guys can get turned on really quickly, and a few sexy words whispered in his ear will do the job
The same goes for how to talk dirty to a guy through text. A raunchy message sent at the right time will make your boyfriend go wild with desire and will almost guarantee he will want to see you as soon as possible
Now you know what good questions to ask your boyfriend to get to know him, so what are you waiting for. Go for those connections or find out if you are truly meant for each other